How to deal with a clingy toddler

Clinginess is a natural part of a child’s development. When young children feel anxious about something or senses a change in their environment, they tend to get slightly more attached to their primary giver.

It’s no secret that a clingy child can become overwhelming and as much we love our children, sometimes we just need a break from them.

Here is how you can encourage your child to be more independent:

• Discover the activities that motivate your little one to play independently. This may take some time, but once you find the activities that really grab your child’s interest, they will be more inclined to play alone.
• Encourage your child to play with other kids their age. Whether you plan a play date with a neighbor or bring your little one to your local park, socialising can help your child develop the skills needed for interacting with people other than just you and your family.
• Let your child know when you are leaving them by using the same phrase when you say goodbye.
• Never sneak out when you leave because this will only make your child more anxious and increase clinginess. They will be scared to engage in an activity for too long in case you magically disappear.
• Try to give your child a solid routine so that things are more predictable for them. This will reduce anxiety because they will know what to expect next.
• Help them build self-confidence by creating simple tasks that they can help you with at home. They can help set up the table or tidy up their toys. Mastering new skills will help your little one feel more confident in themselves and a confident child means a happy mother.
• Don’t forget to praise your child for the things they are able to do without your help. This will show them that they are able to get things done alone and that they don’t need to depend on you every single time.