Very worried after two miscarriages

Thanks guys

I am trying to get over it as best as I can. I am feeling slightly better since yesterday. I finally had the procedure done on Wednesday last week.

Now, when I stop bleeding they're supposed to start looking into the causes of all of this. In some ways it is a relief that we won't be trying again for 12 weeks as this is how long the investigation takes.

The docs at the hospital were very positive and they said I still have some chances, they said it's probably just chromosomal anomalies. But 3 times in a row? The likelihood of that happening by pure chance is less than 1%. Also there is the fact that my mum had 4 miscarriages between my and my brother. Coincidence? Unlikely.

Worryingly enough, in more than 50% of the cases even if they investigate they find no cause to what has happened so you're left with nothing and just go and try again. But just the mere thought of going through this again... I can't even imagine.

I'll keep you posted, fingers crossed for me and for all of those out there in the same situ, it sure is hard.

Three miscarriages in a row is tough believe me but you need to focus on positives - it will happen and it will be ok xx

no doubt this is a very sensitive issue