BUSY BEING MAMMY wrote:
While my Prem was in neo one of the best things i got was a decent hand cream. You can get clothes for them later.
LOL did I give you that??
Someone gave me diprobase, saved my hands. Best gift ever.
Don't OFFER lifts or dinners, just do it. Say "I'll see you at x time with your dinner" or "what time do you have to be there, I'll pick you up, I'm going that way (lie)".
If they were unexpectedly early, chances are they don't have everything they need. An Argos mothercare, tony kealys catalogue bunch is very handy for them to research stuff. Then ask if you can get stuff for them, awkward stuff like cots and nightlights, collect stuff they're borrowing.
Also, the basics for the babies. smallish (small baby rather than early, around 5-7lbs) vests and baby grows are essential. Also as they need to be reminded that the babies WILL be coming home soon. A framed pic of them is lovely too, I loved mine.
Also a baby book specifically for premature babies and twins is lovely to record all their milestones and little stories. Try this one
http://tinylittlebaby.co.uk/