He blames a child for the breakup, how very grown up of him! I pity his current partner.
Telling you to cop on would be a bit harsh, you lost a relationship and you also lost a baby and that's a lot too deal with. It's a good sign that you've realised you're better off without him but it's also perfectly normal to feel funny about someone who was in your life so long going through this with someone else. You sound like you'll be well on the road to getting over it very soon
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