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 Post subject: Thoughts on adoption
PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 1:49 pm 
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Hi girls,

For all of us waiting and those who have been through the process and made it through the other side :D Feel free to add your own.



Not flesh of my flesh
Nor bone of my bone,
But still miraculously
My own.
Never forget
For a single minute:
You didn't grow under my heart
But in it.



KISSES IN THE WIND (The Waiting Child's Lullabye)

I hold you in my heart and touch you in my dreams.
You are here each day with me, at least that's how it seems.

I know you wonder where we are... what's taking us so long.
But remember child, I love you so and God will keep you strong.

Now go outside and feel the breeze and let it touch your skin...
Because tonight, just as always, I blow you kisses in the wind.

May God hold you in His hand until I can be with you.
I promise you, my darling, I'm doing all that I can do.

Very soon, you'll have a family for real, not just pretend.
But for tonight, just as always, I blow you kisses in the wind.

May God wrap you in His arms and hold you very tight.
And let the angels bring the kisses that I send to you each night.



The Day We Adopted You

If we had it to do over again
Adoption is what we'd choose
We got more than we had hoped for
The day we adopted you

For you have given us more in life
Than we could ever want or need
You made our house into a home
And made our family complete

We love you more than life itself
for all the things you say and do
And if we had it to do over again
You'd be the only one we'd choose.....
---Unknown


~~ WELCOME HOME ~~

Tonight as you lie sleeping
For the first time in your bed,
There must be something lasting
And profound that should be said.
But as your face is gazed upon
Framed by your soft, blond hair
No words can tell or quite express
The feelings that we share.
The wait is finally over
You’re home, at last, to stay.
And there will always be the memories
Of the joy that filled this day.
With a love that’s running over
By the sight of you alone
Welcome home, dear cherished one,
At long last … welcome home!




Today I kissed an angel
I knew it from the start.
The first time my angel smiled at me;
I gave away my heart.
Today I kissed an angel;
This angel child of mine
Though not of my creation,
My child by God’s design.
Today I kissed an angel.
My heart is dancing wild;
Our family, by a miracle;
Blessed by our angel child.

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 Post subject: Re: Thoughts on adoption
PostPosted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 5:43 pm 
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They're lovely Zas, gonna copy them to my laptop so I have them for our little one.

Thanks a mil for sharing :thumbsup:

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 Post subject: Re: Thoughts on adoption
PostPosted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 2:21 pm 
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I like this one. it's by Valerie Kay Gwin.

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I tiptoed into your room one night.
I watched you sleeping there.
Your tiny body looked so snug
Wrapped in peaceful slumber's care.

I thought of how you came to be
The child we'd longed to know.
I wondered at the sight of you:
"How could she let you go?"

Tears streamed down my cheeks as I
Felt the pain she must have known.
For I will have to let you go
Some day when you are grown.

A mother I might never meet
Had given me her son.
Yet, surely as you've filled my heart,
A piece of hers you'd won.

"How could she let you go?"
The question kept returning.
And in the depths of my own heart.
A question kept on burning.

"How can I ever let you go
When years have come and gone?"
I stood there by your crib until
The nighttime turned to dawn.

And as the sun peeked through the shades,
The voice of God broke through.
"I trusted her to give him life
And now I'm trusting to you.

"To show him what is right and wrong,
to love him and to be
The one who teaches him the way
To come back home to me.

"He wasn't hers to give, you know.
And he's not yours to own.
I've placed him in your life to love
But he is mine … on loan."


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 Post subject: Re: Thoughts on adoption
PostPosted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 2:26 pm 
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girls all of them brought a lump to my throat and tears in my eyes.....really beautiful....

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 Post subject: Re: Thoughts on adoption
PostPosted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 3:12 pm 
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Not adopting, but I used this poem on a card which I was asked to make for a couple who had recently adopted a baby girl. I think it's lovely:

We didn’t give you the gift of life
But in our hearts we know
The love we feel is deep and real
As though it had been so.

For us to be a family
Is like a dream come true
We didn’t give you the gift of life, but...
Life gave us the gift of You!

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 Post subject: Re: Thoughts on adoption
PostPosted: Fri Aug 27, 2010 10:20 am 
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I like this one. it's by Valerie Kay Gwin.

****

I tiptoed into your room one night.
I watched you sleeping there.
Your tiny body looked so snug
Wrapped in peaceful slumber's care.

I thought of how you came to be
The child we'd longed to know.
I wondered at the sight of you:
"How could she let you go?"

Tears streamed down my cheeks as I
Felt the pain she must have known.
For I will have to let you go
Some day when you are grown.

A mother I might never meet
Had given me her son.
Yet, surely as you've filled my heart,
A piece of hers you'd won.

"How could she let you go?"
The question kept returning.
And in the depths of my own heart.
A question kept on burning.

"How can I ever let you go
When years have come and gone?"
I stood there by your crib until
The nighttime turned to dawn.

And as the sun peeked through the shades,
The voice of God broke through.
"I trusted her to give him life
And now I'm trusting to you.

"To show him what is right and wrong,
to love him and to be
The one who teaches him the way
To come back home to me.

"He wasn't hers to give, you know.
And he's not yours to own.
I've placed him in your life to love
But he is mine … on loan."
I like this one. it's by Valerie Kay Gwin.

****

I tiptoed into your room one night.
I watched you sleeping there.
Your tiny body looked so snug
Wrapped in peaceful slumber's care.

I thought of how you came to be
The child we'd longed to know.
I wondered at the sight of you:
"How could she let you go?"

Tears streamed down my cheeks as I
Felt the pain she must have known.
For I will have to let you go
Some day when you are grown.

A mother I might never meet
Had given me her son.
Yet, surely as you've filled my heart,
A piece of hers you'd won.

"How could she let you go?"
The question kept returning.
And in the depths of my own heart.
A question kept on burning.

"How can I ever let you go
When years have come and gone?"
I stood there by your crib until
The nighttime turned to dawn.

And as the sun peeked through the shades,
The voice of God broke through.
"I trusted her to give him life
And now I'm trusting to you.

"To show him what is right and wrong,
to love him and to be
The one who teaches him the way
To come back home to me.

"He wasn't hers to give, you know.
And he's not yours to own.
I've placed him in your life to love
But he is mine … on loan."
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My Hubby is adopted and we are just starting out on the journey of tracing, reading this has made me cry. I thank every day for his Mum and his bio Mum, for my wonderful hubby.

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 Post subject: Re: Thoughts on adoption
PostPosted: Tue Aug 31, 2010 9:02 am 
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Lovely - brought tears to my eyes :inlove:

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