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Hi MM.For me and my family its time to go.i will miss ireland,people from ireland and all my friends.we decide to leave as our situation its very bad..my husband is very bad with work,we have a baby 1 year and half thats keeping me all day home.i dont want social welfare to help me as me and my husband we ar able to work,they ar people they do need social so i think its fair for them to have.i am so sooooo soooooo sorry to leave,im crying when i look behind..im in ireland from 2005,i learn english here.in ireland i meet people that i think i will never meet again...i love irish people,they ar educated,honest,kind...i cant find my words to say about them..this very bad situation is for about 2-3 years...my husband work a couple months and he wasnt paid(couple thousnd euro)and that was our huge hole in our economy...and from that day it wasnt night that i didnt cry,it wasnt night that i was thinking what we gone do next day...we never steel,we never cheat somebody.we were honest people,but you see somewere there you can find bad people(and i meen my nationality not irish)...and that bring me in a deep depression..i think..i never call my friends,i broke my phone so nobody can call me,i never check my email inbox from friends..i complitly broke with them..until one day when the previous boss with kids(i mind the kids couple years until i have my own baby) call over to my house,they came to visit me...they was thinking that i already left ireland because they never heard from me...when i saw them i start to cry...after a have a chat with her (jenny previous boss) i realise that im in depression..i want to go home,i hate beeing in this situation...we decide in april this year to go home for good.but when we get there,my husband will leave in norway to find work there,in this time i will need a doctor.even now i cant see what im writing because im crying.because only my husband was working,it wasnt enough money to pay all the bills,all staff for baby...i dont say anythink about me or him..its so much to write but belive me i cant write anymore...i cant type..i will realy apreciate any comments,advice from you.take care

Really sorry to hear this. Are you going home to your own country? Do you have family there? X

Best of luck with your move, I really hope everything works out for you. Have you seen a doctor here? If you haven't yet, it would be good if you could go and tel a doctor how youve been feeling, they will be able to help. Take care

All the best with your trip home. So sorry things haven't worked out for you here...
Thanks for the lovely comments re Irish people
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zenmammy ..yes im going to my own country.and i have my lovely parents there.

It can be very hard being away from home and family. And things are tougher here than they have been for many many years. I wish you and your family a safe trip home and hope that things look up for you. I'm sure it will be lovely to see your parents again. Wishing you the best.

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Wishing you & your family all the best in the move, I am glad you will have family there and hope it is the start of a bright future for you all xx

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i want to thank you for the advice ...and i will be asking you if you can check my adds as i have lots of thinks to sell and i need them gone asap i need money to buy ticket..im open to offers.thx

sorry to hear you're going through such a tough time...
hope you don't mind me saying that, but it sounds like you're just trying to run away from the problems and depresion - are you sure moving away will work out for you?
maybe you should face the problem and look for help straight away, while you're still here...

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