It wasn't the party afterwards at all babog,just the upset of having to arrange a quickie reception at the last second,ringing around venues trying to get food etc sorted for 200 people for that night can't be easy.
Wouldn't it have been just as difficult the night before? I think it's terrible blaming the bride, the poor girl was probably in shock and panicking. Also cancelling the whole thing the night before would have been a nightmare altogether. People may have travelled to near the venue/church already. Plus the chances of contacting absolutely everyone to let them know on such short notice would have been very difficult. The families should be showing her a bit of support, not making her feel like crap.
God, I agree. What a nightmare scenario. Can you just imagine? I bet she did what would cause the least amount of disruption and confusion to the most amount of people, by carrying on and arranging an alternative reception. I'd have thought both families would be very upset for the couple and supportive of them, rather than throwing blame around. Would still love to know the exact reason the hotel cancelled though (God, I'm nosey..)